Thanking supporters should be the easiest win in fundraising. It doesn’t take a six-figure budget or a fancy CRM. Just a little time, care, and human connection. And when you get it right? It’s magic. Gratitude builds trust. It deepens relationships. And it makes people feel good about giving - which makes them more likely to give again.
But we still see too many charities miss the mark. Mystery shopping shows how low the bar is. Thoughtful thank yous get replaced with generic auto-replies. Loyal donors feel more like transactions than people. But when a donor gives from the heart and gets silence or a cold, generic response... that’s a missed chance to build trust and an on-going relationship.
We’ve run deep research on thanking and charities using Gemini and Chat GPT. We’ve also uploaded many of the articles and examples we’ve gathered over the years. We uploaded them to Google Notebook LM (which we love!) and created this overview video for you to enjoy. See what you think!
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Lisa Sargent has a number of great articles on thanking on SOFII. You can find the original (and further links) here:
We also recommend signing up for Lisa’s excellent, free newsletter:
Anyone interested in direct mail should watch the brilliant Agents of Good clinics on SOFII. Episode 11 is all about thanking:
The Institute have a number of research papers that you can download for free. Their Love Project work and the report on Learning to Say Thank You are highly recommended.
A classic on building meaningful donor relationships through authentic, emotional communication.
A practical guide to writing thoughtful, donor-focused thank you letters that leave a lasting impact.
Explores bold, creative approaches to direct mail and donor communication that truly stand out.
We’ve also created a series of podcasts to accompany the gratitude deepdive. We hope you’ll find them helpful.
Richard Turner on the Bright Spot Fundraising podcast talking about how to create fabulous experiences for your supporters.
Laura Croudace on the Bright Spot Fundraising podcast talking about how to go the extra mile with thanking.
Alice Barley on the Bright Spot Fundraising podcast talking about thankathons - which we love!
Robin Peake on the Fundraising Everywhere podcast talking about thanking donors.
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