Gratitude and Thanking Blueprint

Discover why gratitude is a powerful force in fundraising—and how cutting-edge AI is helping craft more thoughtful, personalised thank you messages that deepen supporter relationships.

Why Saying ‘Thank You’ Matters Now More Than Ever

Thanking supporters should be the easiest win in fundraising. It doesn’t take a six-figure budget or a fancy CRM. Just a little time, care, and human connection. And when you get it right? It’s magic. Gratitude builds trust. It deepens relationships. And it makes people feel good about giving - which makes them more likely to give again.

But we still see too many charities miss the mark. Mystery shopping shows how low the bar is. Thoughtful thank yous get replaced with generic auto-replies. Loyal donors feel more like transactions than people. But when a donor gives from the heart and gets silence or a cold, generic response... that’s a missed chance to build trust and an on-going relationship.

The Surprising Science of Saying Thank You

We’ve run deep research on thanking and charities using Gemini and Chat GPT. We’ve also uploaded many of the articles and examples we’ve gathered over the years. We uploaded them to Google Notebook LM (which we love!) and created this overview video for you to enjoy. See what you think!

Practical Tools and Insights from Thread Fundraising

The Best Thank You Ever

Explore why this heartfelt thank you is so powerful—and what it teaches us about emotional donor communication.

Birthday Cards & Supporter Experience

What picking the right birthday card teaches us about supporter experience and thoughtful communication.

The Gratitude Machine

Use our AI-trained tool to write thoughtful thank you letters in seconds, based on research and donor psychology.

AI vs Human Thank You Letters Report

See how machine-generated thank you letters compare to human-written ones in our upcoming report.

Inspiring Articles & Research on Thanking

SOFII – Lisa Sargent on Thanking

Lisa Sargent has a number of great articles on thanking on SOFII. You can find the original (and further links) here:

Lisa Sargent’s Free Newsletter

We also recommend signing up for Lisa’s excellent, free newsletter:

SOFII – Agents of Good Direct Mail Clinic

Anyone interested in direct mail should watch the brilliant Agents of Good clinics on SOFII. Episode 11 is all about thanking:

Institute for Sustainable Philanthropy

The Institute have a number of research papers that you can download for free. Their Love Project work and the report on Learning to Say Thank You are highly recommended.

Essential Books To Help You Level-up Your Thanking

Relationship Fundraising by Ken Burnett

A classic on building meaningful donor relationships through authentic, emotional communication.

Thankology by Lisa Sargent

A practical guide to writing thoughtful, donor-focused thank you letters that leave a lasting impact.

Creative Deviations by John Lepp

Explores bold, creative approaches to direct mail and donor communication that truly stand out.

Top Podcasts on Fundraising and Gratitude

We’ve also created a series of podcasts to accompany the gratitude deepdive. We hope you’ll find them helpful.

Creating Fabulous Supporter Experiences

Richard Turner on the Bright Spot Fundraising podcast talking about how to create fabulous experiences for your supporters.

Going the Extra Mile Thanking

Laura Croudace on the Bright Spot Fundraising podcast talking about how to go the extra mile with thanking.

The Power of Thankathons

Alice Barley on the Bright Spot Fundraising podcast talking about thankathons - which we love!

Thanking Donors That Resonates

Robin Peake on the Fundraising Everywhere podcast talking about thanking donors.

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